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Leave your attitude at home

Started April 12, 2004 · 53,780 views · 21 posts
Re:Leave your attitude at home
Well said both of you. I have been going for over 20 years and treat the people, all of the people with the same respect I would want them to give to me. I have seen the fellow that Matt refers to many, many times. I have nothing but admiration for him. I guess some folks that are nothing at home, save a few bucks and then think they can lord it over their hosts, because they are spending a few bucks. But, I think those same people would do the same even in the US or Canada while on a vacation. I recall a patron in a Restaurant in PV complaining endlessly and needlessly about a meal served him. The Waiter smiled and tried to satisfy the complainer to no avail. Finally when his patience was worn out flat, he turned to the crank and said \"I guess it just tastes different from the Macaroni and Cheese you normally eat. I got up and applauded.
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Re:Leave your attitude at home
\"He has significant muscular coordination problems and works for tips for helping people cross the busy streets.\"

We have seen him many times, and I am embarrassed to say it never dawned on me he worked for tips. I will be making up for that error in my judgment in a few weeks, as he does perform an excellent service for us visitors. Thanks for pointing this out Matt.
Re:Leave your attitude at home
Well said .......however I have also seen the reverse of what is being spoken about here.As a tourist ( visitor) to mexico I have always tried my best to treat people with respect and friendliness, this is almost always returned in kind by the people of Puerto Vallarta. I have noticed however a disturbing trend over the last several years more and more some merchants particularly in the Mercado are going out of their way to rip people off. I guess they figure they dont care the people wont be back , this combined with the timeshare fiasco in Puerto Vallarta I can see why some tourists get their back up .Not to try and exscuse the idiot on the bus yelling at the policeman but I run and operate a very succesful fishing lodge and I can tell you that if I treated my guests as I have seen people treated by TS goofs I wouldnt be in business very long . People save for a long time for these vacations to go and relax , if I has a OPC in my resort I would not stay in business for long !This I find to be the minority of people in PVR so like anywhere give respect and usually you will get it back!
Re:Leave your attitude at home
\"more and more some merchants particularly in the Mercado are going out of their way to rip people off\"

That is a pretty generalized statement, would you mind elaborating on just how these merchants are trying to rip people off?
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Oh, I forgot to mention the time I was UNDER charged by $9pesos. The little gal was completely floored when I brought it to her attention.
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when we are in p.v. i find that when i come out of a restaurant, or any other place were tipping maybe expected i find that i tip on verage much more than i do when i am at home. i guess my tip is almost a days pay in some cases. so i can understand when they try to get every peso they can. m.m.
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Well, I am about to take my 7th trip to Vallarta in less than 2 1/2 years. I have never come across a rude waiter, taxi driver, hotel staffer, beach vendor or even shark for that matter. I have always found the Mexican people that we \"tourists\" deal with to be kind, honest, and friendly. Maybe because I treat them with the same respect I like to be treated with. I find many people of my own country \"Canada\" to be much more rude and unfriendly.
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Well, without trying to sound \"sappy\", I really feel that if I treat people like I want to be treated....................sound familiar? It really does work. Like a smile being contagious. It also works.
Re:Leave your attitude at home
Charlieb (Jun 05, 2004 02:55 p.m.):
Well, without trying to sound \"sappy\", I really feel that if I treat people like I want to be treated....................sound familiar? It really does work. Like a smile being contagious. It also works.
short and to the point. bravo
Re:Leave your attitude at home
chuck, other than going to mexico for 34 years, (10 years for us ) everything you said is bang on. the people you are talking about also complain that there are to many mexican restaurants, and not enough english t.v. stations as well. why bother going away?
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thanks for the kind words on us canadians. ( vancouver for us ) this may be true but last time in p.v. we met 3 families all from the states and hung out together all the time. we are still in contact with them. they were from N. Carolina, New York city, and just outside of Chicago. i think you get good and bad people from all over the place.
Re:Leave your attitude at home
First off, I agree that when you are in another country you should blend in as much as possible. That is why when I am in Mexico, I try and at least ask for things in Spainish.

Let me just say that getting into Mexico is easy for Americans because we leave when we say we are. It is hard for Mexicans to get into the US, because they do not leave. As a resident of Southern California for the last 30 years. I have seen an increase in the traffice, longer waits in emergency rooms, higher state taxes, higher crime, all because this State has a problem with illegal immigration.

Sorry this is a hot button issue, here right now and I could not help myself.
Re:Leave your attitude at home
I think everyone should go see Un Dia Sin Mexicanos when it comes out to the theater near you, it should be pretty eye opening, especially to residents in California.

\" Puerto Vallarta would be just fine if not better off without Tourism believe it or not.\"

I can say that statement is very untrue as there is not much of a local job market with exception to tourism. Very little agriculture, no fabrication or industrial jobs. Without tourism, I would say the vast majority of the working people of Vallarta would be jobless.
Re:Leave your attitude at home
2 pesos well spent, EarlyRetire! :-)
Re:Leave your attitude at home
Just one question, Chiripiorco. Since you felt the need to leave the USA and the US attitude behind, did you also give up your US citizenship? Just wondering . Chuck
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Hello Mogens,
I am wandering if you are a Brit or a Canadien. I see many mispellings or typos, and I am sure I am guilty too, but the criticise leads me to ask that question. Not trying to be nosy, just curious.
Re:Leave your attitude at home
I am wondering if this was a subconcious double post.
Re:Leave your attitude at home
Or, if you might be a Canadian. Apologies, everyone. Although now it seems that I have no problems with double posting.
Re:Leave your attitude at home
I agree with all your quotes!!



Canadians may be cheap, but we have a kick ass, attitude... friendly and respectable.



OHH and pay money to watch the movie from Michael Moore...... \"PROUD TO BE CANADIAN\" after watching that embarrsing movie!!!
Re:Leave your attitude at home
sernia (Aug 28, 2004 12:40 p.m.):
I agree with all your quotes!!



Canadians may be cheap, but we have a kick ass, attitude... friendly and respectable.



OHH and pay money to watch the movie from Michael Moore...... \"PROUD TO BE CANADIAN\" after watching that embarrsing movie!!!
LOL LOL you rigth my friend , only french canadian are verry arrogant & don t speak even englisch < supercheap tipper are mostly from quebec ,, A ex- restaurant owner from ontario
Re:Leave your attitude at home
nope